Sabotaging our spiritual growth

Let’s examine the various ways the aspirant could impede their progress toward the Threshold or Transformation. Come and visit our website search it on AyahuascaHealings best ayahuasca retreat you can learn more.


The aspirant could misinterpret events. Perhaps they wish to see things the same way or have events conform to what they desire. One example: The aspirant announces she has “finished” her attachments to her parents or other childhood attachments. Unfortunately, the inner realm is not as well defined and explicit as that of the outer world. If we take a walk, paint a picture or cook a meal, we might know when the task is complete. The progress and accomplishments of inner work are dependent on our projections and delusions. It is possible to misinterpret that she is avoiding complete , keeping her parents close and retaining a trace childhood dependence. Rather than truly releasing herself of any attachments, she is . The therapist needs to probe: What is your resistance? How does dependency manifest in your life today? How are you able to feel dependent on your therapist?


The act of internal bargaining refers mainly to psychological negotiations. While bargaining might be useful in the outside world, taking from one person to benefit another in the inner world is counterproductive. This is because it can lead to a psychological state of totality. A new understanding of the inner state that is wholeness must be gained. The therapist must skillfully demonstrate to the aspirant that “robbing Peter in order to pay Paul” no longer works. We either pass the Threshold fully or not at any time. Partialness does not exist. The therapist helps the aspirant cultivate trust, faith, or surrender. The therapist asks if the aspirant is aware that he or she is bargaining. What do internal bargaining strategies can you use to get what you want? You’ve been living a life that has been filled with inner conflict. The state of wholeness requires you to become a unified person.

Sudden Crisis

One example is the sudden appearance of a crisis. The aspirant may need to relocate, visit a family member or friend, or take up a new lifestyle, whether it be creative, relational, or professionally. Although it’s a type of the previous strategy for compensation, I have separated it because I find it so common.

The therapist may ask the following questions: “Why do you believe this crisis has erupted in your life?” Is this crisis really as serious as you think? Are you aware that the current event occurs at a critical moment in your therapy? Is your reaction to this crisis a way to prevent a breakthrough for your therapy?

It’s obvious to all but the aspirant that the aspirant transfers this opportunity onto someone close and considers them to be experiencing an initiatory moment. This makes it impossible for the aspirant to stop therapy at this crucial stage of their development. It is remarkable to see how blind an previously conscious and observant aspirant might be to the sequences of events that undermine their inner work. The therapist inquires: What are you seeing in the other person to reflect what’s happening in your life right now? What would you do if [name of friend] was your situation? How would it benefit someone to stop going to therapy? I feel like you are passing your current life onto your friend.

The aspirant is suddenly drawn to another type of therapist, training, or method of psychotherapy. These new methods are often reported in glowing reports by their friends and family. This can put your therapy at an advantage. Modern examples of this include the Ayahuasca ritual, charismatic spiritual guides, a host of therapy methods that promise immediate or rapid results, and the ubiquitous mainline hit of large-scale events based upon principles of humanistic psychology, Zen Buddhism, with celebrity endorsements proclaiming that the event has been a turning point for their highly successful careers. Whatever it is it is bailing you out.

The therapist asked the following questions: What makes it more beneficial to you to try a new approach than continuing with your current therapy process. Did you have any other experiences where the grass was greener? What attracted you to [name of charismatic leader, therapist]? What have you learned from working with me to make your work more efficient?